Sunday, December 5, 2010
No Longer a Virgin - of Blind Dates that is...
Guy 1 – Mark “hey how you doin’”
Kids: 1 child
Employment: Sales Manager, who thought he was a ‘Company Negotiator’, whatever, sales guy.
Hair: Dark Brown - cut short, not bad
Build: oh my, he works out...
Outfit: Flip flops...yep the ultimate "I don't give a fuck" shoe, true religion jeans and white/red plaid shirt.
First impression: Ok this guy has a funny nose, but nice freakin watch!
“Guy” Label: Immature Dad
Where we met: Blue Tusk, Syracuse NY; Pastabilities, Empire Brewery
Blind Date Blondie rating: 3 cocktails
Moments that made me like him: We were laughing about apples, and I touched his arm…rock solid. I mean, a solid diamond held nothing to him.
Moments that made me not like him: his “hey baby lets fuck” line.
Ok so he didn’t really say that, but when the conversation starts with an IM “Where are we going to dinner. I am only in town for one night, no expectations” - you better believe I am taking him up on that. Not only because I am well over due for a nice restaurant dinner, but I also know I have will power and that even though I know “I am only in town for one night, no expectations” really means “vacation sex”, I won't fall for it. (so don't worry mom I didn't sleep with him)
Now this “vacation sex” doesn’t have to be on a real vacation, more seems like a great idea for people on business trips, I recommend it. But it definitely follows my theory of Why the Fuck Not?
This whole blog will follow my theory of Why the Fuck Not - like when he asked me to go back to his hotel with him...I thought, well I don't want to die, get a STD or not sleep in my own bed...so my WTFN was answered and I said NO! That simple.
I'll keep Mark in my phone list, he is from Baltimore, and I am all about networking - hell maybe when I am in Baltimore sometime I will need a place to stay, and since I already know he is willing to share a bed with me, I won't have to worry about paying for a hotel.
The first experience was a great one- free appetizers, doors opened for me and a bottle of wine with only my name on it - I think I am on to something here - free dinner in exchange for conversation in a public place? I can do this -
At least I learned about this 'vacation sex' theory and meeting random people in cities you are traveling for work - my tummy and my wallet are going to benefit from this.
Until the next sucker!
The girl who got free dinner :) <3 !