tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-173193440351654437.post26030537005204994..comments2023-08-10T07:10:02.499-07:00Comments on A Girl's Gotta Eat!: Part 1: Why I am single - IntimidationA Girl's Gotta Eathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15940183498735810176noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-173193440351654437.post-22132530795088220992011-02-06T22:31:01.834-08:002011-02-06T22:31:01.834-08:00@Emma- This is who I am and yes I am smarter to fi...@Emma- This is who I am and yes I am smarter to find a man this way - but you got to admit it is entertaining as HELL...<br /><br />...and I will take a great dinner over love in my life right now...<br /><br />Thank you for the sweet encouraging words!A Girl's Gotta Eathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15940183498735810176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-173193440351654437.post-19303474763770928532011-01-26T22:17:57.613-08:002011-01-26T22:17:57.613-08:00"Ironically, I don't care what they say, ..."Ironically, I don't care what they say, it is actually the men who do not write me at ALL, who are clearly not interested in my brain, wit, body and soul (meow) that I want to know what is not attractive about me to them. <br /><br />I love your reference to the insecurity aspect, few people picked up on that - Clearly these men who did write me back want to be needed by someone, and want to be babied. "<br /><br /><br /><br />PLEASE read that back again.<br /><br />(First off you used "ironically" incorrectly) Yes, those guys who you lured in to get a written response performed as expected. You've gotten dinners, great. What is your goal? Dinner? Or love? As it stands now you're still alone, right?. I really hope those dinners have been delicious, mocking your own quest for love.<br /><br /><br />I love you babe, but figure your own self out before anything...<br /><br />You're lonely (that's OK), you want a warm body in your bed, so FIND ONE, a hot, sexy one, and have FUN with him/her!!!<br /><br /><br /><br />You're not going to find a meaningful relationship this way, (blind dating and blogging about it) and you fucking know it. You're smart. Stop kidding yourself, and just BE YOURSELF. The right man will find you, and if he doesn't, you've at least had a great sex life ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-173193440351654437.post-20961454924935018332011-01-13T14:24:04.050-08:002011-01-13T14:24:04.050-08:00@Bs I have contacted him - definitely friend mater...@Bs I have contacted him - definitely friend material!<br /><br />@AMDM - LOVE the quafecta, story of my life<br /><br />@Emma - I totally get what you are saying, I am not implying I am falling for what these men say, because I completely know this is not scientific research I am conducting. <br /><br />Ironically, I don't care what they say, it is actually the men who do not write me at ALL, who are clearly not interested in my brain, wit, body and soul (meow) that I want to know what is not attractive about me to them. <br /><br />I love your reference to the insecurity aspect, few people picked up on that - Clearly these men who did write me back want to be needed by someone, and want to be babied. <br /><br />I love the comments keep them coming!<br /><br />Love, <br />The Girl who thinks you all rockA Girl's Gotta Eathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15940183498735810176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-173193440351654437.post-31556927507859311522011-01-11T07:59:22.812-08:002011-01-11T07:59:22.812-08:00Oh honey, no. Two things - 1) This is a line from ...Oh honey, no. Two things - 1) This is a line from guys. 'Oh, you're soo beautiful, I was intimidated' Post a picture of a frog on your profile and you'll get the same response. They see your weakness (whyyy don't people contact me aren't I speciallll? and are pouncing on your insecurities by complimenting you) 2) People acutally don't contact you for the same reasons any people don't connect - they don't find you attractive in the way they are looking for, they don't find your age/interests compatable, maybe you seem a little concieted/into yourself in your profile, theat's a huge turnoff for guys and girls alike!Emmanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-173193440351654437.post-88698247236656277982011-01-11T07:57:14.609-08:002011-01-11T07:57:14.609-08:00AGG2E,
You suffer from a phenomena my friends an...AGG2E, <br /><br />You suffer from a phenomena my friends and I have dubbed "having the quafecta"...it's like the trifecta (but four obviously)...we've noticed that most men will not try to date a girl (but will keep her as a friend) if she is <br /><br />1) Attractive<br />2) Successful<br />3) Witty/Funny<br />4) Intelligent <br /><br />We haven't figured out how to combat this national issue (I mean seriously who wouldn't want to date us?) but take it from my group of five girls who all suffer from having the quafecta...we know just how you feel. If only we were dumber, less driven, un-funny or ugly...A Modern Day Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03831304018199956984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-173193440351654437.post-80625084697244067152011-01-11T07:05:25.197-08:002011-01-11T07:05:25.197-08:00Did you contact that 2nd to last guy? He seemed......Did you contact that 2nd to last guy? He seemed...ok? :)BSnoreply@blogger.com